I can't stand men, but I can't help but be attracted to them?

When I say I can't stand men, I only mean when it comes to relationships or and romance. I don't know one man who hasn't cheated or used the women they were with, which I'm not even saying is outright terrible, the women probably knew, but I just don't want anything to do with it. It's just how men are. Even when they really do seem to love them at first they always end up treating the girls like less than a person. This IS JUST ROMANTICALLY. I have plenty of friends that are guys, and we treat each other as complete equals. I just see it separately. Who a man is when he's not trying to get any is different. I've had a couple relationships before my dislike of the way men do things came around. The problem is is that I am extremely attracted physically. I am bi, so I was fairly satisfied in "that area" with women, but it's not working so much anymore. I really DON'T want to get involved with any men that way, but I'm afraid I really might. Is there a way to lessen the attraction?